Sneha Dhama-ಸ್ನೇಹ ಧಾಮ

ಛೇ! ಎಂತಹ ಆಸೆ ಪಟ್ಟೆ _______________________ ನಾನು ಚಿಕ್ಕವನಿದ್ದಾಗ ಶ್ರೀಮಂತ ಡಾಕ್ಟರ್‍ ಇಂಜಿನಿಯರ ಮಕ್ಕಳ ನೋಡಿ ಅಂದು ಅಂದುಕೊಂಡೆ ನಾನು ಇಂತವರ ಮಗನಾಗಿ ಹುಟ್ಟಬೇಕಿತ್ತು ಅಂತ||೧|| ನಾನೀಗ ದೊಡ್ಡವನಾಗಿ ಬೆಳೆದಿವನಿ ಆ ಮಾತುಗಳು ನೆನಪಾದಾಗ ತೂ ನಾನೆಂತಹ ಆಸೆ ಪಟ್ಟಿದ್ದನೆಲ್ಲ ನಮ್ಮಪ್ಪ ರೈತ ನಾಲ್ಕು ಜನಕೆ ಅನ್ನ ಬೆಳೆಯುವ ಶಕ್ತಿಯುಳ್ಳವನು ಅಂತಹವನ ಮಗನಾಗಿ ಹುಟ್ಟುವುದೆ ಭಾಗ್ಯ||೨|| ನನ್ನನ್ನ ನಿಸರ್ಗದ ಮಧ್ಯ ಹೊತ್ತು ತಿರುಗಿದವನು ಹಣ್ಣಿನ ಗಿಡಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ನಾ ಕೇಳುವ ಹಣ್ಣು ಹರಿದು ಕೊಟ್ಟವನು ಹೊಳೆ ಬಾವಿಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ನನ್ನ ಬೆನ್ನ ಮೇಲೆ ಹೊತ್ತು ಈಜು ಹೊಡೆದು ನನಗೂ ಈಜಲು ಕಲಿಸಿದವನು ಛೆ! ಇಂತಹ ಭಾಗ್ಯ ಬಿಟ್ಟು ಎಂತಹ ಚಿಕ್ಕ ಆಸೆ ಪಟ್ಟೆನಲ್ಲ||೩|| ನಡು ರಾತ್ರಿಯಲಿ ಹೊಲದ ರಾಶಿಯ ಪಕ್ಕದಲಿ ತನ್ನ ಜೊತೆಗೆ ನನ್ನ ಕರೆದೊಯದು ರಾತ್ರಿಯ ಭಯ ಕಳೆದವನು ಕತ್ತಲೆ ಕಂಡು ಹೆದರುವ ಸಣ್ಣ ಪುಟ್ಟದಕ್ಕೆಲ್ಲ ಆತಂಕ ಪಡುವ ಜಾಯಮಾನ ನನ್ನಪ್ಪನದಲ್ಲ ಛೆ! ಇಂತಹ ಪಾಠ ಕಲಿಯುವುದು ಬಿಟ್ಟು ಎಂತಹ ಆಸೆ ಪಟ್ಟೆನೆಲ್ಲ||೪| ಜಾತ್ರೆಯ ಜನರ ಮಧ್ಯ ನನ್ನಪ್ಪ ಹೆಗಲ ಮೇಲೆ ಕೂಡ್ರಸಿಕೊಂಡಾಗ ಸಾವಿರಾರು ಜನರ ತಲೆ ನೋಡಿ ಖುಷಿಪಡುವ ಭಾಗ್ಯ ಬಿಟ್ಟು ಎಲ್ಲೂ ದೂರದಲ್ಲಿ ಕಾರು ನಿಲ್ಲಿಸಿ ತೇರು ನೋಡುವ ಜನರ ಮಗನಾಗುವ ಆಸೆ ಪಟ್ಟೆನೆಲ್ಲ ಛೇ! ಇಂತಹದನ್ನು ಬಿಟ್ಟು ಎಂತಹದಕ್ಕೆ ಆಸೆ ಪಟ್ಟೆನೆಲ್ಲ ||೫|| ಮೋಸ ವಂಚನೆ ಅ

Hi All, ....... My story is too long and interesting. I hope to share all in coming days via my personal blog (Snehadhama1). For now, here’s something to get us acquainted. I’m born and brought up in the village called Devagoan Near–Kittur- Belagavi Dist-Karnataka –India. I didn’t have the rosiest of childhood also as a teenager in my 17’s, because I use to go for farming and cattle feeding in the forest in my school vacations almost from 4th std - 7th std and 8th-9th vacation have spent working in the hotel for earning my school fees and books. I was so happily enjoying my time with nature, rains, when i was in my home town, but no time to play with friends and enjoy. I wish to be like other children’s, a free bird. Here I was thinking too deeply about it, was lost and confused; not knowing who I am or what I wanted to be. Being from a dysfunctional family , I had to rely on myself, staring, to find answers. The first thing that stroked in mind is to complete my education withou

Smile please!!!! .........Because you look beautiful and everybody wants to look beautiful. Girls spend a lot of time and money in beauty parlour to enhance their beauty but become stingy in smiling. Who explains that smiling is the real beauty? The smiling face does not need a make up. You are beautiful, you are blessed, you are flourished, you are happy etc all the positive thoughts bring smile on the face. Smile please because it makes a lot difference in your life. When you start smiling, a certain type of positivity enters into your life and if your attitude is positive then everybody gets attracted towards you. Just think, when we go to any departmental store for shopping we always grab discounted things or buy one get one free items. So smile is a gift given by God then why such a hesitation in smiling? Smile as much as you can, trust me girls, you all will look very beautiful and trust me boys, you all will be very handsome. Because of your smile, you make life more beaut

Do You Make These 10 Mistakes in a Conversation? Can you improve your conversation skills? Certainly. It might take a while to change the conversation habits that’s been ingrained throughout your life, but it is very possible. To not make this article longer than necessary let’s just skip right to some common mistakes many of us have made in conversations and a couple of solutions.  Not listening Ernest Hemingway once said: “I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people never listen.” Don’t be like most people. Don’t just wait eagerly for your turn to talk. Put your own ego on hold. Learn to really listen to what people actually are saying. When you start to really listen, you’ll pick up on loads of potential paths in the conversation. But avoid yes or no type of questions as they will not give you much information. If someone mentions that they went fishing with a couple of friends last weekend you can for instance ask: §   Whe